Midst of All Echoes

To feel safe in someone's energy is a different type of intimacy. The greatest moment of intimacy would always be when someone sees you at your most difficult state, when someone sees the most fragile part of yours, when someone witnesses the most unacknowledged and unlovable parts of yours. The ocean of emotions that feels like fire within your bones, like your soul has returned to the water, like every part of you that came from a dead star is alive again. Nothing could ever be more intimate than allowing yourself to be deeply seen and known, and when you honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, kindness, respect and affection. Such connection is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each of them. The best gift you can ever receive from someone is to feel safe in your own skin, to feel acknowledged, to feel appreciated, to feel worthy, to feel that you are enough. 

When you are grown up in an environment where you are only loved impliedly, and you have never felt how genuinely it is to be loved, how genuinely it is to be cared for, later in adulthood, you tend to realize how almost impossible it seems to cross that distance and let yourself to experience closeness. You would flinch away every time when someone tries to break the shield that you have built around yourself, you surround yourself with a sort of masculine energy to avoid closeness, you wear a mask which hides your real true self. Eventually, you will realize, you have actually been your real true self in the presence of someone whom you can feel totally comfortable with. By just being themself, you would be able to return to your authentic self and your authentic state; a higher state of existing and being. Without having control over yourself, you surrender yourself. You acknowledge yourself to the reality, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, eventually, you are determined to build the world that you have always dreamt possible.

With someone who has the energy and vibe that aligns with your mind, soul and body, positive growth occurs effortlessly.  You feel more grounded. You just grow and flourish effortlessly.